Feminally

See- here’s my problem with this line: either we are allowed to judge people by things like this or we are not. You can not say both, “she knew what she was getting into” AND “it’s unfair to prejudge frat brothers as rapists or assholes.” Pick one. I happen to pick the latter, which means, by default, she would not assume that such disrespect was the logical consequence of fraternizing with frat brothers.

If it’s unfair to assume that frat brothers are rapists, then it’s unfair to tell a rape victim she should have done exactly that.